by Emily Sovich

Monday, January 30, 2012

A Stranger Tells a Story

"You know," the man said suddenly, "the Khmer Rouge killed many people in Cambodia."

"Yes," we said.

The man looked surprised. "You know the Khmer Rouge," he asked.

"Of course," we nodded.

The river was shining in the evening light. Palm trees were in silhouette against the sky. "It's beautiful here," I sighed, resting my head on Chris' shoulder.

The man turned his face away. He shoved his hands into his pockets.

"They killed my parents," he said. His voice was a whisper. "They took them when I was nine years old. After that, I was alone. I had no one to care for me, so I worked in the fields. Spreading fertilizer. I remember the smell, the heat and the dirt, the mosquitos. I remember spreading manure with my hands." He shook his head and looked at Chris. "That job was very bad," he chuckled. Then he paused.

We stood there, quiet.

The man laughed suddenly. "Cambodian swimming pool," he said, pointing at two, small boys in the river. "There are crocodiles there, of course, but the boys don't worry. You hardly ever see them." One of the boys scrambled onto the muddy bank, grinned, and then jumped onto his brother. They both went under then came up again, spluttering and splashing. I closed my eyes. I could hear Katherine and Penelope jumping off stones in the field behind us. They were loud and laughing; every now and then one of them would shriek.

They're all the same, I thought, these children.

"In the old days," the man said, and his voice was soft again; his eyes were fixed on the boys in the river. "In the old days, we were always thirsty, but there wasn't any cold water; we weren't allowed to have ice. One year though, one year I remember they gave us ice. People stood in line, hundreds of people; they stood in line for hours waiting for one, small cup of ice water. That's communism, though," he said, turning back to Chris. "Communism, very bad."

"Yes, very bad," we nodded.

16 comments:

  1. "One year, I remember they gave us ice." What a statement. The trouble is, I think most people don't really know what happened in the Killing Fields, or even how this generation still suffers there. And when this generation passes away, and there is no one who still remembers parents who were taken, all those millions will have died so quietly, slipping away, silent to the world's ears.

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  2. Hearing stories like this cannot help but make one feel more grateful for even the little things we seem to take for granted.

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  3. Really makes you realize how much we take for granted. We have to much.

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  4. i definitely agree with them. it's sad how much we take for granted. :/

    <3, Mimi
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  5. So well written. Such a sad chapter in Cambodia's history.

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  6. Huh. I hadn't thought of this as a post about the things we take for granted. I was trying to focus more on the connections between us, I think; the parts of the human experience that stay the same, and that we can all relate to, regardless of wealth or circumstance. Mostly though, I just thought it was interesting to hear a first-hand account of life under the Khmer Rouge. I knew about the regime, but like Jade pointed out I didn't really *know* what happened. It seemed important to share his story.

    I'm glad you guys shared your perspectives with me though! You've given me a whole new way to see this conversation!

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  7. Sure gives different perspective on things, thanks for sharing!

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  8. Yes....for me there were TWO points I took away....that in this conversation, like others, a Cambodian adult made a profound statement, in just a word or two....
    Americans are Lucky....
    Communism is very bad....
    They are profound and true and real and we should NOT forget them.... they are intertwined as well.

    The second point for ME was that your daughters were laughing and playing, but NOT in the crocodile infested waters....because your daughters have parents who teach them otherwise, who protect them, and love them....and nurture them.

    Parents are a gift many children don't have in 3rd world countries. Taken by disease, war, many other tragedies....these children DO grow up alone and remember a glass of ice water as a precious day forever in their memories.

    You are a wonderful writer Emily....
    My stepson took several months and backpacked through this region and MUCH worse....places where he had to have special visas; he's a national science fellow at Berkeley getting his PhD....but an amateur photographer. His photographs of this region are gripping.
    Have a wonderful week...
    Joann in CO

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  9. You are truly blessed to experience these story gifts as you travel, and I'm so grateful that you share them with us.

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  10. So sad that this man lost his parents at such a young age and had to live the life he did. And all because of a regime that wanted to control the people. How nice that he just to share with you his life story. Hope you're having a nice day! You really are experiencing so much aren't you?

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  11. I just love your writing, Emily. Being able to share your experiences is such a gift. Thanks.

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  12. We do take for granted what we have. His life sounds like it has been so sad.

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  13. Such tragedy in that little country

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  14. Thank you for writing.You inspire me to take notice.
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  15. I have enjoyed catching up here today with your experiences on your recent trip Emily, which once again you have put into words so eloquently.

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  16. Yes, children seem to be the same everywhere, finding joy in such small things. Nice writing.

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